Marriage-Arrange or Love,wat do u suggest????

In India a Child’s birth,An Adult’s marriage are like a festival…with lots of love,music,food and not to mention all the cultural stuff like YAGYA,MANTRAS and all the HOLY STUFF for success later on these occasions.
Now lets leave aside the birth thing,n lets talk about our main subject that is

“MARRIAGE”
As they all say marriages are made in heaven,n broken on earth…..oops
Jokes apart.perosnally I think it is a wonderful feeling,the whole concept of marriage,m quite fascinated by it….
2 entirely ne people just getting into a lifelong relationship,and just being together every moment…….
Sho Shweeet………..!!!
But that’s not wat il b discussing bcoz I have something else in mind…hmmmmmmmmm,yeah
Today we will discuss “ARRANGE MARRIAGE” and later n let u people decide,which one is better,ok????
Good……..!!!
Arrange marriages are considered an awsum union in our Indian setup,bcoz from so many years it used to be like parents used to marry off girls faraway,so there was very less contact with the girls..
M talkin about 18th century,got it?????
So for once and for all the girls were given all the instructions regarding-
Ø How to b a good wife????
Ø How to b a good homemaker????
Ø How to please your in-laws????
Ø How to please your husband????(yeah……nice)
Ø How to b a perfect wife????
Ø Just bow down to him…..!!!
Ø He’s your God or PATI PARMESHWAR…..!!!
Ø U r just an object,that’s it…….!!!
U might feel bad,but its true….
In other words life of a women was not hers bcoz of the fact,the man to whom she was getting married was the one who was the main earner of the family,so she had to oblige him n his family in order to assure her well being……Strange,isn’t it??????
Then things changed,girls were educated,they were getting their share of frredom,education,love and everything..
Nw m talkin about 19th century,ok?????
They were being given some priority,were treated not equal to sons but still they were given,some importance….
Then during this time,their parents gave them a different piece of advice,here it is????
Ø U have to b patient,it can change ur fortune..
Ø U have to support your husband….
Ø U may not b as strong as him,but u have to take his burdens…
Ø Whether u like or not love n respect his elders
Ø And last but not the least,even if hell breaks on u,just die ther dn come back leaving ur husband…
Ø U were send on a palanquin,only come back in a corpse
Here u can notice that women’s life has changed,from adoor mat to a overcoat hanger..
Its even more surprising,isn’t it?????

Now m talkin about present,now the girls are independent in almost every aspect,whether it is finance,career,power,fame etc..

U name it she has it,now wat?????

Now things have changed,girls study hard to get a good stand and a better status than boys,they study hard,work harder…….
They know it that the old reforms n things won’t change,and this male dominated society won’t let them breathe,dats y they are starting early…..
SEE(“Count YourChickens,Before They Hatch”)
Now girls are making choice between marriage and career bcoz she knows if she has the power,she can make things go her way…..!!
And that’s,fair enough…coz after so many years of being treated like a doormat,wat can u xpect out of a women….????
I think its pretty right in their own way…
wat do they call?????ya “TAKING BULL BY ITS HORNS…..!!!!”

Oh my God,wat was I supposed to discuss, n wat did I do…….
M a complete idiot,I always deviate from the topic……
Cant help it,I guess virgos are like dat,so m pretty sleepy now,rest will discuss tomorrow…..
Dn’t worry I will.but till then its
GOOD NIGHT….TAKE CARE…..GOD BLESS…….
LOVE ALL….

jUsT 4 LaUgHs

In today’s fast life ther is very little time for meeting each other,having a good time,or going for a work..
As they all say “LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE”
I have posted some fotos,wil surely make u laugh or smile…..
Even if one person is happy after reading this I’ll consider that I have done something nice…….!!!

vIrGiNiTy-iS iT sUcH a bIg iSsUe?????

Last week I attended my friend’s marriage,evrythng was very good to be precise pretty lavish……
Like we all say “PUNJABI STYLE”………..
Before we talk further I would like to tell u something about my friend and his life….
My friend is a very good looking guy,he’s something around 6” feet tall,fair n very good looking,hez working in a Multi National Company as a HR,earning something around 12 lacs PA…
But that’s not what made him my friend,the fact was that he was very decent and respected girls,in other words pretty chivalrous….
Also he was in love with a very very good looking girl from past 5 years,whoz currently working as an Air Hostess in Brussels Airlines….
Everything was as beautiful as it could get,both good looking people,great salaries,great careers…..i would call dat a “High level Union”

But now comes the twist in the tale….Hmmmmmmmm
So’here it goes…..
“THE VERY GOOD LOOKING GUY,DID NOT MARRY THE VERY GOOD LOOKING GIRL”…..
WAT??????????
yUp………..!!!
Reason being the girl is not a virgin……!!!
There were no. of occasions when they used to get a raise or a promotion and they would give us a great feast…even everyone in our group including his own brother was very sure of them getting married.but look wat happened….
there were no of occasions when she used to cook for him,also smtimes she used to invite all of us to her eyes as v all were her Beau’s best buddies..
Everythng was so perfect n adorable,even we had started loving her as our Bhabhi(Sister-in-Law)
There were several times wen they used to get intimate n they both were well aware of wat they were doing,also the guy knew well about the girl’s past and prersent…
So how come this point,come between them????????
Now after so many years of being together the girl is all broken,she feeling almost dead bcoz she had almost considered him her husband,soulmate…..
Also adding insult to the injury was the fact that the guy’z parents knew the girl very well she used to pay them visits n they even cald her as her daughter n nw they dnt consider her upto their level,wat the crap….!!!
And wen I asked about her to that guy he just blatantly said”Just Leave it man,But tell u wat She Was A Tigress in bed…….!!!”
How pathetic and disgraceful……….
U knw wat guyz like these are the ones,bcoz of whom girls consider all of us as Bloody loverats,”Always Looking For Holes”………
People like these not only disgrace us,but also defame us in every girl’s eye…
Even if somebody is genuinely trying to help or comfort a girl every one thinks,it’s a plan to “BED” that girl….

My request to u people,especially guyz is this dat plz don’t disgrace us……!!!
I knw guys are not even half as intelligent and not even quarter as Beautiful as girls,but still v are not bad either….

And also one more important thing to ask?????????


Even these days,Is virginity such a big,issue??????


PLz rply…………

LiVe n LeT Live

Some days back there was a hue and cry,during the fashion week about somebody’s jeans being unbuttoned…….
The occasion was launch of LEVIS JEANS with its latest collection that is UNBUTTONED BRAND,at Lakme Fashion week,Grand Hyatt Santa Cruz
U dnt need to be a sage or a saint to guess who dat person was,ya right that was a well known Bollywood Superstar….
“AKSHAY KUMAR”
The point which created a buzz was the fact that who was that girl was who did this brave thing of Unbuttoning Akshay’s jeans……
Wat a strangely brave thing to do…….!!!
The news spread like a wild fire,it was flashing on all the news channels any channel u watch just Akshay Akshay n Akshay…..
Wat a madness…….!!!!
As mad as it could get,it was sheer madness,like a stampede killing thousands of people,just to get a glimpse of the girl who created al this havoc…….
Some were dubbed as saying that Akshay’s marriage is on the rocks,he’s no more a family man n success has gone into his head n wat not all was being said about him…..
Cmon just give that poor guy a break………!!!
All the news channels made a good n considerable amount of money n TRP’s after flashing n derobing somebody’S modesty,in turn who was not so modest but still was a human enough to be stripped……
At last just to find out after so many hours of waiting it was found that the “GIRL” in the firing line was none other than his very own wife n lucky charm “TWINKLE KHANNA”…..
Now that’s wat u call a true drama,Bollywood Ishtyle…………!!!
After all this ordeal ended,there was again a furore surrounding
AKSHAY….
Now comes a new twist in the tale,that somebody’s morality woke up at this incidence,and the so called “Moral Police” took the matter into their hands,n case was registered against “AKSHAY KUMAR” n his wife “TWINKLE KHANNA”
Mr.ANIL NAYAR,who describes himself as a social worker and social reformer,submitted a written complaint against tha Actor,his Wife,The Hotel Management and not to mention the Show Organisers…..
Now according to the media sources these all are booked for the following-
Section 292-Related to sale of obscene objects…..
Section 293-Related with sale of obscene objects to young person….
which states the following
“SHOWING INDECENT,VULGAR AND OBSCENE BEHAVIOUR”……




My point is just that,these social reformers n social workers don’t these people have some serious issues to work upon or is this just probably the fastest way to fame…
By degrading a celebrity or joining ur name with him,or claiming to be his or her relative……
Had these so called social workers,would have been a bit more responsible n mature,than we would have been living pretty peacefully……..
Our courts are full of these stupid cases and their judgements,so wen will thses things end??????
Can anybody tell….!!!!