Marriage-Arrange or Love,wat do u suggest????

In India a Child’s birth,An Adult’s marriage are like a festival…with lots of love,music,food and not to mention all the cultural stuff like YAGYA,MANTRAS and all the HOLY STUFF for success later on these occasions.
Now lets leave aside the birth thing,n lets talk about our main subject that is

“MARRIAGE”
As they all say marriages are made in heaven,n broken on earth…..oops
Jokes apart.perosnally I think it is a wonderful feeling,the whole concept of marriage,m quite fascinated by it….
2 entirely ne people just getting into a lifelong relationship,and just being together every moment…….
Sho Shweeet………..!!!
But that’s not wat il b discussing bcoz I have something else in mind…hmmmmmmmmm,yeah
Today we will discuss “ARRANGE MARRIAGE” and later n let u people decide,which one is better,ok????
Good……..!!!
Arrange marriages are considered an awsum union in our Indian setup,bcoz from so many years it used to be like parents used to marry off girls faraway,so there was very less contact with the girls..
M talkin about 18th century,got it?????
So for once and for all the girls were given all the instructions regarding-
Ø How to b a good wife????
Ø How to b a good homemaker????
Ø How to please your in-laws????
Ø How to please your husband????(yeah……nice)
Ø How to b a perfect wife????
Ø Just bow down to him…..!!!
Ø He’s your God or PATI PARMESHWAR…..!!!
Ø U r just an object,that’s it…….!!!
U might feel bad,but its true….
In other words life of a women was not hers bcoz of the fact,the man to whom she was getting married was the one who was the main earner of the family,so she had to oblige him n his family in order to assure her well being……Strange,isn’t it??????
Then things changed,girls were educated,they were getting their share of frredom,education,love and everything..
Nw m talkin about 19th century,ok?????
They were being given some priority,were treated not equal to sons but still they were given,some importance….
Then during this time,their parents gave them a different piece of advice,here it is????
Ø U have to b patient,it can change ur fortune..
Ø U have to support your husband….
Ø U may not b as strong as him,but u have to take his burdens…
Ø Whether u like or not love n respect his elders
Ø And last but not the least,even if hell breaks on u,just die ther dn come back leaving ur husband…
Ø U were send on a palanquin,only come back in a corpse
Here u can notice that women’s life has changed,from adoor mat to a overcoat hanger..
Its even more surprising,isn’t it?????

Now m talkin about present,now the girls are independent in almost every aspect,whether it is finance,career,power,fame etc..

U name it she has it,now wat?????

Now things have changed,girls study hard to get a good stand and a better status than boys,they study hard,work harder…….
They know it that the old reforms n things won’t change,and this male dominated society won’t let them breathe,dats y they are starting early…..
SEE(“Count YourChickens,Before They Hatch”)
Now girls are making choice between marriage and career bcoz she knows if she has the power,she can make things go her way…..!!
And that’s,fair enough…coz after so many years of being treated like a doormat,wat can u xpect out of a women….????
I think its pretty right in their own way…
wat do they call?????ya “TAKING BULL BY ITS HORNS…..!!!!”

Oh my God,wat was I supposed to discuss, n wat did I do…….
M a complete idiot,I always deviate from the topic……
Cant help it,I guess virgos are like dat,so m pretty sleepy now,rest will discuss tomorrow…..
Dn’t worry I will.but till then its
GOOD NIGHT….TAKE CARE…..GOD BLESS…….
LOVE ALL….