Hello peoplezzzzzzzzzzzz,m bak…..
I knw dat peoplzzzzzz in not a correct word to b used rather its not a word in itself but who cares no one’s gonna slap me a fine for uncorrect English so leave it…..
Today m in a vry happy mood,coz m having a burger right nw,with an orange slush,which is sssssooooooooo yummmmyyyyyyyy……
I dn feel like blogging today but cnt help it I started a topic so cant leave it widout any inference.so here it goes…
Last time I was discussing “ARRANGE MARRIAGES”
(so boring……..EEEEsh)
For all who dnt knw wat m saying,plz read the below posts n plz b updated of my posts,got it??????
Or else,dissshummmmmm dissshummmmmmm…
Ha ha ha ha jst kidding guyz….
Now “Lets discuss…………
”LOVE MARRIAGE,hmmmmmmmmmm……
(“MOGAMBO KHUSH HUA…….!!!!”)
In india concept of love marriages dsnt go very we3ll and there is always a major amount of pressure on the parents and as well as children….
Love marriages,are nit looked upon as a better future prospect.(I dn knw y,my parents had one,n they are happy enuf…)
In india love marriage is a sign of children betraying their parents,reason being parents dn give their children dat nuch freedom n independence…….
They just dn want to talk about it,if children do..then thry say”Now m sure u r having an affair….!!!”
Wats dat now,evn u cnt discuss it newhr,n ultimately results in bowing down to ur parents,getting married whr they want u too………
This is not done,ur parents married 20 yrs ago then the time was different,evrythng was different…
Like I told u in my previous post that girls had no say in those times,but now dats not the case,girls are as much involved n are an important part of a relationship….
But parents dn get it,n neone who does a love marriage then just hell breaks……….
They all are after their son or daughter’s apouse n they dn evn leave a single chance of deserting fim….
He’snot frm our culture,dsnt look like us,dsnt speak our language,n hez a non-vegetarian n wat not all…….
Is it dat difficult for people of same human species but different “CASTES”(as they all say……)to live together?????
and as far as I knw or my intelligence says(which is “ZERO” as far as I knw) its not dat difficult coz I thnk its about 2 people n if they love and care for each other it dsnt really matter,dat they are from different caste,creed,religion or race……..!!!
and also my view is dat in life from the day,wen a women consummates with a guy and creation of life occurs,a pregnant women is always told to do this for the baby dn take stress,be happy,this n dat and SOOOOOOOOOOO many endless things…
and after hez born her parents decide wat will b her name,her school,her clothes,wat frnds she’l make,wat food she’l eat…whr she’l go out,with whom she’l go on a date…thn her stream n her evrythng is decided by her parents…
so my question is “Can’t A Living Being take Only one and The Most Important Decision of his life???????”
Dsnt He Being a human Has That Much Freedom????
If An Arrange Marriage dsnt go rite,he’l suffer forever n being so cald “AADARSHWADI N SANSKARI BACHA” he won’t b able to tell his parents dat he’z suffereing coz dat will show wat wrong judgement his parents have made in choosing the girl.
So in order to prove omake his parents rite he’l live with dying every second every moment……….
So plz atleast give ur kids one chance in lyf to rise upto the occasion n think for themselves,n being your correct values n culture imbibed in them,they won’t let u down MAMMA’s N PAPPA’s…..
So plz give it a thot…………..
thnx
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