A day at ISIC(Indian Spinal Injury Centre)

Hi to all people today was one of the most eventful days of my life,I went to ISIC for training…
To all who don’t know wat ISIC is,lemme tell you…
It is a hospital which specializes in treatment and rehabilitation of spinal injuries and traumas,of any kind…
From head injury to nerve injuries,from multiple fractures to stroke,from hemiplegia to paraplegia every thing is taken a good care of here……
I as a physical therapy student went there for my clinical practice,in order to get a chance to go there and be a part of
India’s most sophisticated and complex upto date spinal injury centre and also the only one of its kind to have a hydrotherapy unit installed(it is used for exercising inside a pool)………
I was quite amazed by the fact that it was a state-of –art hospital,with an awsum physiotherapy and occupational therapy units….
Moving further,wen I say the patients it was something I never thot I would face in my life…
As of know I have rehabilitated people with stroke,cardiac and pulmonary patients,people with fracture cases,burns and sports injuries but wat I saw today was quite different…………
There were patients with road accidents,falls from a height,people with suicide cases,people with skull injuries.
There were many people of different age groups,from different races,caste,creed and it was so good to see they all being treated by doctors of different religions,no wonder India is referred as a “Secular State”…….
It was good to see doctors whoz religion was only their selfless services,for the first time I was proud of myself that I have chosen such a humble profession…
I felt like a human being,rather I felt complete today…
Moving onto wat I saw,the most unnerving thing which I saw ever saw in my life was today,I saw a little girl who was just about 8 yrs of age,and she was paraplegic which means(partial or total paralysis of all or part trunk and both lower extremities from lesions of the thoracic or lumbar spinal cord or sacral roots) as a layman it means that she can just move her head,wat a pity…..!!!!
She was just akid who had seen nothing in her life as of now,n such a drastic event in her life was very unnerving for me……
The most disheartening thing was the fact that wen I talked to hwr she wanted to grab my hand,but was unable to do it…….
As adults v know how to vent our frustrations but wat about a child……..????????
Who dsn’t evn have experienced the happiness yet,but has learned to live with his “Diffabilities”..
DIFFABILITY-(I never say that these people are Disable,but I say that these are Diffable i.e they are differently able)
The girl was so talented,she was as singer….at the age of 2 she started singing,can u believe dat????????’
And look wat turn destiny took for her…..!!!
May b its upto to the existence to decide,wat has written for whom….
wat I can do is just follow my duty towards Humanity……….

Homosexuality-Are we Ready for it??????????

Some days bak a gigantic,memorable and historic stepwas taken that seemed to pulling India’s name out of the conservative and backward countries list…..(hopefully it will)
But what m talking about is the fact that on 2nd July Thursday,2009 India’s judicial system showed a new face of Young India with a unique perspective and vision in mind……..
On this very day Delhi High Court delivered a historic judgement to amend a 149 yr old colonial-era-law,(i.e)section 377 of IPC which now has been decriminalized…..
Section 377 stated that-“Amaximum penalty of life sentence on anybody who has carnal intercourse against the order of the nature with any man,women or animal….”
This was really a tough and brave decision by Indian judiciary,given the fact that so mnay people were against it,n it was turned down in so many courts earlier……
This decision has attracted public wrath,anger of all the communities and their respective heads…whether it be Maulan ji for Islam,whether it b Pandit ji for hindus Rabbi ji for Sikhs and Clergy for Christianity…for the first tym they are all together just to oppose this decision…..
They never took such a step wen half of country’s men died in wars,wen our people were killed in terrorism,wen people died in natural disasters,for people who are still nursing their wounds form kashmir trauma…
Just there gurus bother about is the publicity,the media platform….
For me the aim of religion is to unite people and guide them,and these people who always say they have reached the a state of salvation or the moksha which according to my knowledge means uniting your mind and soul with the almighty and just freeing your body from the cycle of birth and death,something like dat na??????
Then y are these people worried about handful of homosexuals in a population of 100 crores and still going strong…………
My point is dat is homosexuality such a crime or sin that person suffering or following it should b hangeD or killed????
Dnt these people have feelings??
Arn”t they human being????
Dn they have a right To live??
They may b different but they are humans,they were made by the god like dat,isn’t so??
Or else y wud a guy go against norms of society and attract public hatred just to fall in love with a guy………
Or y wud a grl leave aside a handsome and desirable man to b in a arms of a grl…..think abt is???
I think wen god has given them birth and made them like that then may b he has something written for them,and v r no one to question the mother nature or the existence…!!!!!
Then y cnt v leave them alone and happy in their own self,and let them live and die peacefully?????
I dn think dats too mach to ask for from us,as we say v r d humans,v can let them live peacefully,can v??????????? Think over it………….!!!!!

ANNUAL CALENDAR OF CANSUPPORT’S AWARENESS & FUNDRAISING EVENTS
FOR 2009-2010


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“MUSICAL CONCERT BY SHUBHA MUDGAL”
ON SATURDAY, 29TH AUGUST 2009
AT CHINMAYA MISSION AUDITORIUM


WORLD HOSPICE & PALLIATIVE CARE DAY
“DISCOVERING YOUR VOICE”
MUSICAL PROGRAMME – ARTIST TO BE FINALISED
ON SATURDAY 10TH OCTOBER 2009
AT BAHA’I TEMPLE AUDITORIUM

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“OUT, OUT BRIEF CANDLE”
PLAY PRODUCED & DIRECTED BY LILLETE DUBEY
WRITTEN BY
MAHESH DATTANI
ON MONDAY 26TH OCTOBER 2009
AT…………………….
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AN EVENING UNDER THE STARS
DANCE PERFORMANCE BY…..
ON …..NOVEMBER 2009
AT RESIDENCE OF BELGIAN AMBASSADOR

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“WALK FOR LIFE”
ON SUNDAY 7TH FEBRUARY 2010
AT VINAY MARG, SHANTI PATH, CHANAKYAPURI












MUSICAL CONCERT BY SHUBHA MUDGAL
SATURDAY 29TH AUGUST 2009
AT CHINMAYA MISSION





Shubha Mudgal is a well-known Indian singer of Hindustani classical music, khayal, thumri, dadra, and popular Indian pop music.
She has been honoured with numerous awards that include: the 1996 National Film Award, for Best Non-Feature Film Music Direction, for 'Amrit Beej; the 1998 Gold Plaque Award for Special Achievement in Music, at the 34th Chicago International Film Festival, for her music in the film Dance of the Wind (1997); and the Padma Shri in 2000.
Ms. Mudgal performs once again in aid of CanSupport on Saturday the 29th of August, 2009 from 5 pm-9 pm, at the Chinmaya Mission. Donor passes of the denomination of Rs. 1000 will be available at the CanSupport office.
We are appealing to you to make this fundraiser a success by becoming one of the sponsors and/or by buying a block of donor passes. The cost of organizing the entire event, including the royalty fee to artists, is approximately Rs. 6 lacs. The main sponsors will receive an attractive benefit package.
For further information, please call Bhavna or Rishita on any working day between 10 am and 5 pm at 26102851, 26102869.





“DISCOVERING YOUR VOICE”
MUSICAL PROGRAMME – ARTIST TO BE FINALISED
SATURDAY 10TH OCTOBER, 2009
AT THE BAHA’I TEMPLE AUDITORIUM



World Hospice and Palliative Care Day is a unified day of action to celebrate and support hospice and palliative care around the world.

The theme for World Day 2009, which will take place on 10th October, is, ‘Discovering your Voice’.

We particularly want to hear the voices of those affected by hospice and palliative care around the world; these include people living with life-limiting illnesses, their families and their carers. We also want to hear the thoughts and ideas of funders, policy makers and advocates who can influence and improve access to hospice and palliative care services for those who need it.

The major fundraising activity for World Day 2009 is ‘Voices for Hospices’, a wave of musical concerts held simultaneously around the world. CanSupport has been participating in this global event since 2000.

We are appealing to you to make this fundraiser a success by becoming one of our sponsors and/or buying a block of donor passes. The cost of organizing the entire event, including the royalty fee to artists, is approximately Rs.8 lac. The main sponsors will receive an attractive benefit package. We will also release a souvenir on this day. You can also participate by placing an advertisement in our souvenir.
For further information, please call Bhavna or Rishita on any working day between 10 am and 5 pm at 26102851, 26102869.




“OUT, OUT BRIEF CANDLE”
PLAY PRODUCED & DIRECTED BY LILLETE DUBEY
WRITTEN BY
MAHESH DATTANI
MONDAY 26TH OCTOBER 2009
AT…………………




Tentatively titled "Out, Out Brief Candle" (a quote from Shakespear’s 'Macbeth') the play is the latest offering from Mahesh Dattani, the noted playwright. It is produced and directed by the talented and versatile actress Lilette Dubey who says, “I wanted very much to do a play that addressed mortality and highlighted life, and which spoke of how, it was not important how long we lived but rather how richly we lived our lives.”

Though set in a hospice for terminally ill patients the tone of the play is upbeat and illuminating. It is a hilarious bedroom farce with some extremely funny situations revolving around a hotel room near the airport. As the characters in the play await their departures, which are delayed due to a storm, they end up in comic situations, as they entangle themselves in surreptitious dalliances and complicated love affairs.

We are appealing to you to make this fundraiser a success by becoming one of the main sponsors and/or buying a block of donor passes. The cost of organizing the entire event, including the royalty fee to artists, is approximately Rs. 6 lacs. The main sponsors will receive an attractive benefit package.
For further information, please call Bhavna or Rishita on any working day between 10 am and 5 pm at 26102851, 26102869.


‘WALK FOR LIFE’
ON SUNDAY 7TH FEBRUARY 2010
AT VINAY MARG, SHANTI PATH, CHANAKYAPURI



Walk Now and Help Save Lives!

The purpose of our annual Walk for Life is to create awareness and concern among the public about cancer which is on the rise in India. Despite the fact that there is today clear and convincing evidence that action on smoking, diet and infections can prevent one third of cancers, while another third can be cured if caught early, almost 80% of people with cancer in India are diagnosed too late for a cure. This must change.

After two consecutive years of successfully organizing the Walk for Life and raising funds for our much needed services, CanSupport is looking forward to its next Walk for Life to be held on Sunday the 7th of February, 2010.

More than 3000 people, from all walks of life, participated in this year’s Walk It was flagged off and led by Smt. Gursharan Kaur, wife of the Prime Minister, who expressed her desire to do all that she could to increase awareness about cancer. As she remarked, “This walk is a great way to reach out to people, and tell them that early detection can make all the difference in a cancer patient’s life.”

Besides locals and expats, cancer survivors and members of their families, there was group participation from corporates, clubs, schools, colleges, embassies and local walking clubs. Celebrities and ordinary citizens all rubbed shoulders with each other that morning to express their solidarity with and support for those affected by cancer.

We are appealing to you to make our coming Walk for Life an even bigger success by becoming one of our sponsors and/or registering as a participating group. The cost of organizing the entire event is approximately Rs.25 lacs. The main sponsors will receive an attractive benefit package.
For further information, please call Bhavna or Rishita on any working day between 10 am and 5 pm at 26102851, 26102869.

hello frnds,m bak..........

Hi to all of my net frnds and people who know me………
Its been a long since I posted anything on my page,the only reason being that I was busy with my life..
Alotof things happened in my life some good and some bad but above all,the most important thing,dat my college days are over now……….
My all the days of njoyment,happiness all fun and frolic seems lyk they have all been put to an end…..
Now I have entered a new fast lyf,n I can already foresee the ambitions and responsibilities whc m supposed to bear,feels weird but I have to nw……..
I never thot that a funloving and easy going person lyk me would ever face such a challenge yo lead others….
First I would like to tell you all that now m a practising Physiotherapist,n now wen I treat or diagnose people it feels pretty strange as well as emphatic…..
Feels lyk I have done something for them,wen they smile orwen they bless me,it’s a different feeling altoghether,something I cant xpress or share……….
Why I wrote this blog today evn I dn knw,but may b I will know,when I reach at some level of expertise………..

SONIA GANDHI-a tRuE LeAdEr aNd nOt A SiCk pOlitIcIan,mInD iT...!!

Sonia Gandhi wenever we hear about her,we always imagine of a women in saree in late 50’s and somebody whoz heading the Congress from so many years n by God’s Grace may she do the same for many years to come……….

U people must b thinking that wat the hell m talking about,coz if anybody wants to know about Sonia Gandhi Ji,he would just Type her name on either Google or Yahoo and BAaaaNnnnngggggggg……

Everything and literally nething that’s happened with her or about her will be at your computer’s screen at a monent’s notice……..

So wats the use of reading my blog??????
Or wat different have I written that u guys dnt knw????
Nothing as such,coz m not discussing about the head of the Congress party here,but about a Wife,a mother and so many aspects which wenever thot of,so plz b patient and read on……….
Some days bak wen I was sitting idle and had nothing to do(which is of course,majority of times)I just switched on the TV and started channel surfing,then I thot lets listen some national news…..

Then in some channel I heard I heard o politician saying that…
“SONIA GANDHI IS NOT AN INDIAN,AN SOMEBODY WHOZ NOT PART OF THE COUNTRY HOW CAN U MAKE DAT PERSON THE PM????
ALSO RAHUL AND PRIYANKA ARE ALSO HALF BLOODED INDIANS SO THEY DN EVEN DESERVE TO STAND IN ELECTIONS,LEAVE ALONE THE POINTS OF MAKING RAHUL GANDHI A PM”

Plz dn ask me the name of the person whoz said this shit…..
But to b honest I was quite miffed after listening to this…
Not because Iam loyal towards Congress,or my parents are Congress followers,but bcoz watevr was being said about her was not correct…

(and here m talking about wrong on Humane grounds,not political grounds bcoz politicians have no dignity and no GROUNDS)

Then I started realizing and pondering over some facts,they are…….
A lady who left her country,her culture,her parents,her life,her world in short her identity forever,to just for sake of her husband Late.Mr Rajiv Gandhi and in turn an Indian….
She had quite a monster-in-law,in form of Indira Gandhi…

People of that era know this quite well that SONIA GANDHi was not accepted by Indira Gandhi and also that their spats and “TyPicAL sAas bAhu” fights were quite public then……
They were both eye candy for media as most of channels were running bcoz of them,funny isn’t it????

(Media even in those days was acting like A TRUE CATALYST that is just accelerate the reaction without actually taking part in it,c some things never change……..)
Lets leave the Media thing I’l centre it very soon……..

So m talking about SONIA GANDHI JI,u must b thinking y m writing “JI” after her name.dats bcoz there are handful of people I respect in Politics and she happens to b one of them…….
M talking about a women of determination,of sheer strength,the way she took Indianness into her……

She not only changed her name,her attire,her clothes but she changed her lifestyle her way of living to b a True Indian,u want proof?????
OK..as we all know children are a true reflection of their parents in every aspect,dn u think the same after looking at Rhul and Priyanka Gandhi??????

Dnt they look like the Next face representing India??????
And even if this proof is not enuf,then look at this one…..

She was an Italian by origin,had she wanted she could have easily retained her,maiden name which SONIA MAINO but she din’t coz she wanted to be an Indian…..

Like other so called true Indian and cultures bahus take Aishwarya’s Example,shes Still

Aishwarya Rai Bachchan,as if she ahs given her name on lease to bachchans as a billboard that u can paste ur name to b famous…
(yet shez true Indian,Ironical….!!!)

Next comes her children who look Indian and are Indians,how???
Have u ever seen them speak,they know their hindi very well…….!!!
Other than Shashi kapoor’s son,whoz speaks so awesome hindi,he was also part of some stupid and flop hindi movies…..
(yet hez true Indian,Ironical….!!!)

Also my question is that she is so rich,I suppose and she from Italy,and I think people from Italy know about fashion a bit,I suppose???
Yet shez seen seen in sarees?????
Isn’t she stylish enuf or isn’t she educated enuf to know about Italian designers Like Roberto Cavelli,Donatella Versace,Gianni Versace,Guccio Gucci…(hello I thot shez from Italy)

Then y dsn’t she wears those expensive gowns and dresses,also added to that expensive accessories like shoes,bags and glasses which these Bollywood Celebrities and Brainless Socialites boast of wen taken an interview….

U Knw bcoz she wanted to an Indian,its not about her clothes,not the way she speaks,not about how bad her hindi is but the feeling of being Indian which is inside her heart…
Shez seen in sarees so that people can accept her,for wat she is and not wat she can become…….
She has done wat even Rajiv Gandhi could’nt have done had he been alive,and yet shez not an INDIAN……….!!!!

Wat do u feel about it?????????
Do U think our country is so Advanced an sought after nation that people will have to work so hard to be an INDIAN?????

Eve other countries the developed ones make u your national if u have benn living there from past 5 yrs or more with no black mark on your name…….
Then whoz the hell these bloody political parties are to decide whether SONIA GANDHI JI is an INDIAN or not????????

Who has given them the authority to do that??????
And till wen Will SONIA GANDHI JI’s quest to be an INDAIN go on????????
If u have read my blog till here,then plz do write in……..

Coz I have left some questions unanswered.so plz……………

rIght tO vOtE-Y Dnt U Understand its Power?????

hello frnds m bak again,with a newpost.this weekend was ful of excitement for me….
I went for shopping n got a lot of stuff I was waiting for,n now m pretty content…..
Atleast for sometime my desires won’t go out of my hands….
Ok nw lets come to the point…..
My posts this week will b all about ELECTION ELECTIONS And ELECTIONSSssssssss………..
I knw it sounds pretty boring and stupid,and especially bcoz its coming from myside……..
I would like to tel u about my self that I hate politics n above that I hate bloody politicians…
Politics is not that bad,but to b honest politicians have made it look worse……….
And whether u believe or not Politicians and Rakhi Sawant have almost become synonym of each other and a tag line attached to both of them…
That is..”U LOVE THEM OR HATE THEM,BUT U STILL CAN’t IGNORe THEM………!!!”
So my points is,dat we all say politics is bad,its like hell,cultured people dn go into it….
Wats the use of politics and who wants to b a politician today..
Also our parents adding to saying dat..”BETA YE POLITICS TO GUTTER HAI GUTTER,TUM ISME PADKAR KYUN APNE AAP KO GMAILA KARNA CHAHTE HO….!!!”(SON THIS POLITICS IS LIKE A GUTTER,WHY DO U WANT TO TARNISh UR IMAGE)
All parents say this,n I say that’s fair enough…..
Nobody would want their son to jump in a pitt of useless uncertainities,but then whoz gonna take up the cleaning work??????
I dn say u go n join politics coz I myself can’t do dat and nor m a social reformer to do dat….
But I have a humble request to all my fellow Indians,dat we are the youth…..
We are like a tide,we are like a storm…….. and if directed well we can change the future of our country,and this will change our destiny too…..
Dn u realize our power,half of the Indians are sitting outside India well settled an d earning in No.s….
Had there been,enough oppurtunities here,then why would have they left their land and lived there…..
And they are considered outsiders there,with names like”THE OTHERs”,”ALIENS”,”THE BLACKS” and the list is endless…..
So y dn we the youth choose such a govt,and create such a masterpiece Govt(By the People,With The People,for The People)so that there is enough oppurtunities for everyone,so that our talent is not exported outside…
And then his talent’s small part is sold to our country at 20 times price….
So this is my humble request to all of u,plz vote this time coz its now or never……..!!!

Coz if v choose a wrong govt then 5 yrs are enuf for neone to make our life hELL,so decision is all yoursssssssss….
THINk PAtiEntly…….!!!
Just Vote………

Now my favourite one-LoVe mArRiAgE

Hello peoplezzzzzzzzzzzz,m bak…..
I knw dat peoplzzzzzz in not a correct word to b used rather its not a word in itself but who cares no one’s gonna slap me a fine for uncorrect English so leave it…..
Today m in a vry happy mood,coz m having a burger right nw,with an orange slush,which is sssssooooooooo yummmmyyyyyyyy……
I dn feel like blogging today but cnt help it I started a topic so cant leave it widout any inference.so here it goes…
Last time I was discussing “ARRANGE MARRIAGES”
(so boring……..EEEEsh)
For all who dnt knw wat m saying,plz read the below posts n plz b updated of my posts,got it??????
Or else,dissshummmmmm dissshummmmmmm…
Ha ha ha ha jst kidding guyz….
Now “Lets discuss…………
”LOVE MARRIAGE,hmmmmmmmmmm……
(“MOGAMBO KHUSH HUA…….!!!!”)


In india concept of love marriages dsnt go very we3ll and there is always a major amount of pressure on the parents and as well as children….
Love marriages,are nit looked upon as a better future prospect.(I dn knw y,my parents had one,n they are happy enuf…)
In india love marriage is a sign of children betraying their parents,reason being parents dn give their children dat nuch freedom n independence…….
They just dn want to talk about it,if children do..then thry say”Now m sure u r having an affair….!!!”
Wats dat now,evn u cnt discuss it newhr,n ultimately results in bowing down to ur parents,getting married whr they want u too………
This is not done,ur parents married 20 yrs ago then the time was different,evrythng was different…
Like I told u in my previous post that girls had no say in those times,but now dats not the case,girls are as much involved n are an important part of a relationship….
But parents dn get it,n neone who does a love marriage then just hell breaks……….
They all are after their son or daughter’s apouse n they dn evn leave a single chance of deserting fim….
He’snot frm our culture,dsnt look like us,dsnt speak our language,n hez a non-vegetarian n wat not all…….
Is it dat difficult for people of same human species but different “CASTES”(as they all say……)to live together?????
and as far as I knw or my intelligence says(which is “ZERO” as far as I knw) its not dat difficult coz I thnk its about 2 people n if they love and care for each other it dsnt really matter,dat they are from different caste,creed,religion or race……..!!!
and also my view is dat in life from the day,wen a women consummates with a guy and creation of life occurs,a pregnant women is always told to do this for the baby dn take stress,be happy,this n dat and SOOOOOOOOOOO many endless things…
and after hez born her parents decide wat will b her name,her school,her clothes,wat frnds she’l make,wat food she’l eat…whr she’l go out,with whom she’l go on a date…thn her stream n her evrythng is decided by her parents…
so my question is “Can’t A Living Being take Only one and The Most Important Decision of his life???????”
Dsnt He Being a human Has That Much Freedom????
If An Arrange Marriage dsnt go rite,he’l suffer forever n being so cald “AADARSHWADI N SANSKARI BACHA” he won’t b able to tell his parents dat he’z suffereing coz dat will show wat wrong judgement his parents have made in choosing the girl.
So in order to prove omake his parents rite he’l live with dying every second every moment……….
So plz atleast give ur kids one chance in lyf to rise upto the occasion n think for themselves,n being your correct values n culture imbibed in them,they won’t let u down MAMMA’s N PAPPA’s…..
So plz give it a thot…………..
thnx

Marriage-Arrange or Love,wat do u suggest????

In India a Child’s birth,An Adult’s marriage are like a festival…with lots of love,music,food and not to mention all the cultural stuff like YAGYA,MANTRAS and all the HOLY STUFF for success later on these occasions.
Now lets leave aside the birth thing,n lets talk about our main subject that is

“MARRIAGE”
As they all say marriages are made in heaven,n broken on earth…..oops
Jokes apart.perosnally I think it is a wonderful feeling,the whole concept of marriage,m quite fascinated by it….
2 entirely ne people just getting into a lifelong relationship,and just being together every moment…….
Sho Shweeet………..!!!
But that’s not wat il b discussing bcoz I have something else in mind…hmmmmmmmmm,yeah
Today we will discuss “ARRANGE MARRIAGE” and later n let u people decide,which one is better,ok????
Good……..!!!
Arrange marriages are considered an awsum union in our Indian setup,bcoz from so many years it used to be like parents used to marry off girls faraway,so there was very less contact with the girls..
M talkin about 18th century,got it?????
So for once and for all the girls were given all the instructions regarding-
Ø How to b a good wife????
Ø How to b a good homemaker????
Ø How to please your in-laws????
Ø How to please your husband????(yeah……nice)
Ø How to b a perfect wife????
Ø Just bow down to him…..!!!
Ø He’s your God or PATI PARMESHWAR…..!!!
Ø U r just an object,that’s it…….!!!
U might feel bad,but its true….
In other words life of a women was not hers bcoz of the fact,the man to whom she was getting married was the one who was the main earner of the family,so she had to oblige him n his family in order to assure her well being……Strange,isn’t it??????
Then things changed,girls were educated,they were getting their share of frredom,education,love and everything..
Nw m talkin about 19th century,ok?????
They were being given some priority,were treated not equal to sons but still they were given,some importance….
Then during this time,their parents gave them a different piece of advice,here it is????
Ø U have to b patient,it can change ur fortune..
Ø U have to support your husband….
Ø U may not b as strong as him,but u have to take his burdens…
Ø Whether u like or not love n respect his elders
Ø And last but not the least,even if hell breaks on u,just die ther dn come back leaving ur husband…
Ø U were send on a palanquin,only come back in a corpse
Here u can notice that women’s life has changed,from adoor mat to a overcoat hanger..
Its even more surprising,isn’t it?????

Now m talkin about present,now the girls are independent in almost every aspect,whether it is finance,career,power,fame etc..

U name it she has it,now wat?????

Now things have changed,girls study hard to get a good stand and a better status than boys,they study hard,work harder…….
They know it that the old reforms n things won’t change,and this male dominated society won’t let them breathe,dats y they are starting early…..
SEE(“Count YourChickens,Before They Hatch”)
Now girls are making choice between marriage and career bcoz she knows if she has the power,she can make things go her way…..!!
And that’s,fair enough…coz after so many years of being treated like a doormat,wat can u xpect out of a women….????
I think its pretty right in their own way…
wat do they call?????ya “TAKING BULL BY ITS HORNS…..!!!!”

Oh my God,wat was I supposed to discuss, n wat did I do…….
M a complete idiot,I always deviate from the topic……
Cant help it,I guess virgos are like dat,so m pretty sleepy now,rest will discuss tomorrow…..
Dn’t worry I will.but till then its
GOOD NIGHT….TAKE CARE…..GOD BLESS…….
LOVE ALL….

jUsT 4 LaUgHs

In today’s fast life ther is very little time for meeting each other,having a good time,or going for a work..
As they all say “LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE”
I have posted some fotos,wil surely make u laugh or smile…..
Even if one person is happy after reading this I’ll consider that I have done something nice…….!!!

vIrGiNiTy-iS iT sUcH a bIg iSsUe?????

Last week I attended my friend’s marriage,evrythng was very good to be precise pretty lavish……
Like we all say “PUNJABI STYLE”………..
Before we talk further I would like to tell u something about my friend and his life….
My friend is a very good looking guy,he’s something around 6” feet tall,fair n very good looking,hez working in a Multi National Company as a HR,earning something around 12 lacs PA…
But that’s not what made him my friend,the fact was that he was very decent and respected girls,in other words pretty chivalrous….
Also he was in love with a very very good looking girl from past 5 years,whoz currently working as an Air Hostess in Brussels Airlines….
Everything was as beautiful as it could get,both good looking people,great salaries,great careers…..i would call dat a “High level Union”

But now comes the twist in the tale….Hmmmmmmmm
So’here it goes…..
“THE VERY GOOD LOOKING GUY,DID NOT MARRY THE VERY GOOD LOOKING GIRL”…..
WAT??????????
yUp………..!!!
Reason being the girl is not a virgin……!!!
There were no. of occasions when they used to get a raise or a promotion and they would give us a great feast…even everyone in our group including his own brother was very sure of them getting married.but look wat happened….
there were no of occasions when she used to cook for him,also smtimes she used to invite all of us to her eyes as v all were her Beau’s best buddies..
Everythng was so perfect n adorable,even we had started loving her as our Bhabhi(Sister-in-Law)
There were several times wen they used to get intimate n they both were well aware of wat they were doing,also the guy knew well about the girl’s past and prersent…
So how come this point,come between them????????
Now after so many years of being together the girl is all broken,she feeling almost dead bcoz she had almost considered him her husband,soulmate…..
Also adding insult to the injury was the fact that the guy’z parents knew the girl very well she used to pay them visits n they even cald her as her daughter n nw they dnt consider her upto their level,wat the crap….!!!
And wen I asked about her to that guy he just blatantly said”Just Leave it man,But tell u wat She Was A Tigress in bed…….!!!”
How pathetic and disgraceful……….
U knw wat guyz like these are the ones,bcoz of whom girls consider all of us as Bloody loverats,”Always Looking For Holes”………
People like these not only disgrace us,but also defame us in every girl’s eye…
Even if somebody is genuinely trying to help or comfort a girl every one thinks,it’s a plan to “BED” that girl….

My request to u people,especially guyz is this dat plz don’t disgrace us……!!!
I knw guys are not even half as intelligent and not even quarter as Beautiful as girls,but still v are not bad either….

And also one more important thing to ask?????????


Even these days,Is virginity such a big,issue??????


PLz rply…………

LiVe n LeT Live

Some days back there was a hue and cry,during the fashion week about somebody’s jeans being unbuttoned…….
The occasion was launch of LEVIS JEANS with its latest collection that is UNBUTTONED BRAND,at Lakme Fashion week,Grand Hyatt Santa Cruz
U dnt need to be a sage or a saint to guess who dat person was,ya right that was a well known Bollywood Superstar….
“AKSHAY KUMAR”
The point which created a buzz was the fact that who was that girl was who did this brave thing of Unbuttoning Akshay’s jeans……
Wat a strangely brave thing to do…….!!!
The news spread like a wild fire,it was flashing on all the news channels any channel u watch just Akshay Akshay n Akshay…..
Wat a madness…….!!!!
As mad as it could get,it was sheer madness,like a stampede killing thousands of people,just to get a glimpse of the girl who created al this havoc…….
Some were dubbed as saying that Akshay’s marriage is on the rocks,he’s no more a family man n success has gone into his head n wat not all was being said about him…..
Cmon just give that poor guy a break………!!!
All the news channels made a good n considerable amount of money n TRP’s after flashing n derobing somebody’S modesty,in turn who was not so modest but still was a human enough to be stripped……
At last just to find out after so many hours of waiting it was found that the “GIRL” in the firing line was none other than his very own wife n lucky charm “TWINKLE KHANNA”…..
Now that’s wat u call a true drama,Bollywood Ishtyle…………!!!
After all this ordeal ended,there was again a furore surrounding
AKSHAY….
Now comes a new twist in the tale,that somebody’s morality woke up at this incidence,and the so called “Moral Police” took the matter into their hands,n case was registered against “AKSHAY KUMAR” n his wife “TWINKLE KHANNA”
Mr.ANIL NAYAR,who describes himself as a social worker and social reformer,submitted a written complaint against tha Actor,his Wife,The Hotel Management and not to mention the Show Organisers…..
Now according to the media sources these all are booked for the following-
Section 292-Related to sale of obscene objects…..
Section 293-Related with sale of obscene objects to young person….
which states the following
“SHOWING INDECENT,VULGAR AND OBSCENE BEHAVIOUR”……




My point is just that,these social reformers n social workers don’t these people have some serious issues to work upon or is this just probably the fastest way to fame…
By degrading a celebrity or joining ur name with him,or claiming to be his or her relative……
Had these so called social workers,would have been a bit more responsible n mature,than we would have been living pretty peacefully……..
Our courts are full of these stupid cases and their judgements,so wen will thses things end??????
Can anybody tell….!!!!

Hi another poem by my grlfrnd,this depicts how our love started,wat all
happened and how everything came to life…..
This was given to me by my love on our 2nd anniversary……
So plz read read it n tel me hw do u like it??????

LOVE STORY
It was the night of October 5,2006
When our most cherished moments began,
Our emotions Were not in Control,
And the Hours just Ran and Ran And Ran….

Nobody was aware,
Wat the future had in store for us,
Tears were flowing from my eyes,
And we had Kept our fingers crossed…

We had lost almost all hopes,
Ready to good bye forevr,
But still something was stopping us,
My heart said”baby,its now or never….!!!”

Then we saw the dawn of 6october 2006,
But something kept bothering me,
Ever sight,sound and person,
Reminded me of your love for me…

I din’t want to meet you,
So I tried really hard to avoid,
Coz it was difficult for me to face you,
So I just cried and cried…

But when the clock struck 2-50,
Your love took its toll,
I could not resist and die further,
And finally I admitted that I could not hide anymore….

And today after 2 yrs of togetherness,
It fills my heart with Glee,
To wish both of us with love,
“A Very Happy Anniversary….!!!!”

cONFeSsIoN-Confessions of a True Heart

Hi I wud like to tel u that it is a poem,whc my grlfrnd wrote for me,
Wen we had a fight,I was realy touched by it…
And this made our love bond more stronger……..
So here it goes plz if u njoy it plz writ in to me…
thnx may god bless u all

“Confession”

There have been times,when I hv hurt u,
But even then u hv forgiven me…
There have been instances when I hv disturbed u,
Inspite of that u hv accepted me…

Sometimes I wonder y do u love me so mch???
Is it coz of the golden heart that beats in u???
Or coz the bonding between us is such????
But then, I guess ‘GOD’ decided this for us…

You hv done a great deal 4 me,
Hence I owe u my life…
And plz plz plz …Don’t be angry..!!!,
As u are the only 1 for whom I strive…!!

With this small “CONFESSION” of mine,
Even though its so absurd…
But plz don”t consider it a crime…
Coz m just trying to make an Effort….

With no further delays and extentions,
While wrapping up this poem,
And with my eyes full of expressions…
I just wanna “CONFESS” that…
I LOVE YOU, I LOVE U and I LOVE ONLY U….!!!!

"mOtHeR"
I asked the God,”Hey wats mother???????”
He looked at me,n smiled n said
“Hey kid.Now u have put me into a Point of bother…!!!!
He told me to listen n listen it quiet…
If only u want to get the meaning right….

“I was able to spread the Sun’s light,but sent a mother End a child”s fight..”
“I was able to create flowing oceans,but sent a mother to stop the tears..”
“I was able to bless u with beautiful seasons,but sent a mother to tel u the reasons..”
“I was able to make the greener trees,but sent a mother to vanish your worries..”
“I was able to generate the fuming fires,but sent a mother to fulfill your desires..”
“I was able to create the food u need,but sent a mother to give u that treat..”
“I was able to control the life saving saving air,but sent a mother to blow away ur despairs..”

He said all this n then he smiled…n asked me ”What else u wanna know my child..????”
“I was confused,I was surprised..
Because I could not really decide..
Then he told me”I know u R confused,or else u wudn’t have given me that expression Dude….”
Then he agin gave smiled and looked to my eyes and said
“Listen to these “GOLDEN WORDS” from the wise…”

“I Could Not Protect U From The Rain,The Dust,The Fire And The Pain..”
“I Could Not Give U The Food So Warm,And Also Ensure That U Don’t Get Harmed..”
“I Also Could Not Always Fight for U,And Also Decide Wat’s Right For U..”
“To Make This Place And Worl To survive,And Make This Eternity Full Of Life..”
To Spread Peace, Sacrifice, Love, Strength, Care, Sense and Joy..”
“I Created The “MOTHER”,Listen O Boy…………!!!!!”

This Poem is written by Me and dedicated to all the mothers on this earth, who has masde our lives worth living n made our world a better place to live
So this is for u all mothers…..
Love U Ma……….

Cancer-Plz read this n make others safe

PLEASE READ TILL END.
AFTER YEARS OF TELLING PEOPLE CHEMOTHERAPY IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRYAND ELIMINATE CANCER, JOHNS HOPKINS IS FINALLY STARTING TO TELL YOU THERE IS AN ALTERNATIVE WAY .
Cancer Update from Johns Hopkins :
1. Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the tests are unable to detect the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.
2. Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person's lifetime. 3. When the person's immune system is strong the cancer cells will be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors.
4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic, environmental, food and lifestyle factors.
5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.
6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells and also destroys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow, gastrointestinal tract etc, and can cause organ damage, like liver, kidneys, heart, lungs etc.
7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.
8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.
9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed, hence the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and complications.
10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause cancer cells to spread to other sites.
11. An effective way to battle cancer is to starve the cancer cells by not feeding it with the foods it needs to multiply.
WHAT CANCER CELLS FEED ON:
a. Sugar is a cancer-feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one important food supply to the cancer cells. Sugar substitutes like NutraSweet, Equal Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make it white in colour. Better alternative is Bragg's amino or sea salt.
b. Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the gastrointestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off milk and substituting with unsweetened soy milk, cancer cells are being starved.
c. Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment. A meat-based diet is acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than beef or pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people with cancer.
d. A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains, seeds, nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline environment. About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes to nourish and enhance growth of healthy cells. To obtain live enzymes for building healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C). e. Avoid coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine. Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting properties. Water-best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acidic, avoid it.
12. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines become purified and leads to more toxic build-up.
13. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining from or eating less meat it frees more enzymes to attack the protein walls of cancer cells and allows the body's killer cells to destroy the cancer cells.
14. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Florescence, Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins, minerals, EFAs etc.) to enable the body's own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like vitamin E are known to cause apophasis, or programmed cell death, the body's normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted, or unneeded cells.
15. Cancer is a disease of the mind, body, and spirit. A pro-active and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor. Anger, unforgiveness and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit. Learn to relax and enjoy life.
16. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment. Exercising daily, and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy cancer cells.


Please spread this msg n save a lives……….